dear unforgiving soul, this is my open letter to you asking … if ther roles were reversed , what would you want from the other ? would you want to receive the same fate you gave them . digging them further into their guilt , or would you release them so in turn you can be released as well ? what good is the anger , the revenge or the lack of effort put in working things out and restoring harmony. i’d say forgive and forget … no dont forget it happened cuz it did . but dont associate the deed with the individual . learn from it and be wise when threading . to error is to human … but to forgive .. that my friend is divine ..not because of anything  the person  did but that the result of the act has placed you both in a bondage only you can unravel . so what do u say ? would you rather be bound , or loosened ?

Grace Miah